Adrian Peterson’s Particular Dilemma and How We Benefit From It

Adrian Peterson is a gifted running back for the Minnesota Vikings who is  currently suspended without pay by the National Football League Commissoner for the 2014 season. He was suspended for using a switch, a small, flexible limb, larger than a twig, to discipline his four year old son. The switch left welts on the boy’s legs, buttocks and scrotum. A complaint to Texas law enforcement officials resulted in a grand jury indictment for “reckless or negligent injury to.a child.” 

This indictment was surprising to those of us who grew up in a day when switches, belts and other objects were commonly used to discipline boys. The switch was part of the educatioal system as well. The old song, “School Days, School Days” sang nostalgically of the elementary school room. It goes like this:

School Days, school days, dear old golden rule days;
Readin’ and ‘ritin’ and ‘rithmatic;
Played to the tune of the hickory stick….!!”
(The song then describes old crushes)

The point herè is that for a very long time “hickory sticks, rulers and switches” were commonly used to discipline in schools and at home. Recall as well the biblical assertion that “if you spare the rod, you spoil the child.”  Proverbs 13:24. So using switches and rods was not only common but suggested as being beneficial as corporal punishment actually helped the developing child.

This is the world that Adrian Peterson grew up in. One in which switches (and belts etc.) were often used to discipline, and by doing so, imparting a sense of self control, toughness, and a Spartan stoicness. The ability to take the switch and not cry was important to the developing male character as the ability to “tough it out” and not react were seen as important in life. In Adrian Peterson’s world, his act of disciplining his child was, to his ethos, not an intent to harm, but an intent to benefit the child.

I went to a Quaker School where rulers and rods were not used, but neighbor boys went to a Jesuit school and they told me of being tapped on the knuckles for spelling errors, rapped on the head for speaking out of turn,  to being taken into the hall and being swatted to the point where it was painful to sit down for sass and such.  A complaint to a parent would result in an inquiry into the reason for the punishment, and, if disclosed, more punishment. At least, the correctness of the punishment would be ratified. So what happened to the five Jesuit disciplined boys? Three are leading doctors, (one heads a major hospital), one is a succesful investment manager and another a famous tax lawyer. Maybe the Jesuits read their Proverbs and got it right.

None of this, of course, helps Adrian Peterson as he lives in a time when corporal punishment against children is not condoned in our society, unless, of course, the discipline is administered under Sharia law, but that’s a different story. The National Football League, in response to the Texas Grand Jury, suspended Peterson for two games. The uproar was so loud, that it reconsidered and he was placed on the Commissioner’s exempted. list that is, in effect, an indefinite suspension. The suspension has now been made definite for the 2014 season, and without pay!

Adrian Peterson grew up in Texas playing highschool football. From what I know, the coaches are not benevolent despots in that part of the world, in fact they weren’t such at my Quaker School. He then played and starred at the University of Oklahoma, was a first round draft pick by the Vikings and has starred in the NFL. His action against his son was lamentable and he mistook discipline for punishment. Therewas no criminal intent to harm in this case, only an intent, possibly misguided, to “teach” proper behavior.

The NFL will do what it must to protect itself. The publicity from this case will go a long way to end corporal punishment, and that is the good and proper result. I, for one, learned that being sent to the headmaster’s office, waiting for him and then standing by his desk as he decided to call my parents, was sufficient punishment.

As a society, we have moved on and that is good. It took Adrian Peteroson and the NFL to bring this issue into the headlines and the NFL learned quickly how serious this behavior is in our culture. That it will be reduced and stigmatized is the beneficial outcome of this matter. Peterson will play again, and after resting for a year, star again. My Vikings could use that.

Ray Rice, Adrian Peterson and the NFL Dilemma

Ray Rice was video taped punching his then girlfriend (Now his wife) in an Atlantic CIty elevator and then pulling her unconscious body from the elevator. Adrian Peterson punished his four year old son by hitting him with a switch. The league and Peterson’s team have reacted and both players are now inactive indefinitely. The media outrage is enormous and it is suggested that NFL Commissioner Goodell be fired.
There is no way the actions can be defended. Both are horrible. However, there was a delay in the media outburst that suggests that there is another agenda here. As this is an election year, I surmise that the media response here is political and financial. There have been several cases of domestic abuse in the NFL in recent years and none of those engendered the vigorous reaction by the mainstream medis so far. The effort is directed at generating support for the so called war on women (that doesn’t exist, by the way) to increase voter turnout among Democrats. The NFL target, very male, violent, aggressive is the perfect foil for this activity. Goodell, its leader, tall, large, rich and blond is a compelling target as well. So what are the aims of those who attack the NFL over this issue? (By the way, Goodell had already instituted a domestic violence program to stop such violence.)
The aim here is the classic shakedown. The. demands on the NFL will mount as various organizations demand money, probably in the billions of dollars, before going away. They may also demand positions within the NFL for their members, and then, urge that Goodell be replaced by one of theirs, to assure compliance with their demands.
The NFL’s dilemma is that it must stand up to the demands while taking actions to re-assure fans that domestic violence will not be condoned in any way. If the league gives in, especially with regard to the Commissioner, it will mean that the owners have given up control of the business. If the league acquiesces in this matter, the demands will only increase and spin away from Rice and Peterson into unrelated areas that will involve the surrender of more of its authority and ability to manage it own affairs. That is an existential moment that must be prevented. The sharks are circling here, and they must be kept out of the NFL boat.